The tax increase was to much to bare.

Posted by Funnyguyva (anonymous) on April 16, 2009 at 8:30 a.m. (Suggest removal)

funnyguy, I know you've said you want to keep the tax rate in front of people, but try for some perspective please.

Right here, I just don't think that's funny.

Who knows why or how this happened? They may never get all the answers, and it's somebody's sister, daughter, son, brother, a life gone.

Bad taste to drum it here, in my opinion.

Posted by BarbaraMunsey (anonymous) on April 16, 2009 at 9:37 a.m. (Suggest removal)

unfunnyguy is really a jerk, way to spank him, BM !

Posted by kevlem2000 (anonymous) on April 16, 2009 at 10:56 a.m. (Suggest removal)

And it's "bear", not "bare".

Posted by dingus3 (anonymous) on April 16, 2009 at 12:02 p.m. (Suggest removal)

This girl was my friend and loved by many. Please do not disrespect her by bantering back and forth. God bless her and may her murderer rot where those like him should.

Posted by pammegel (anonymous) on April 16, 2009 at 12:12 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Glad he was charged with first degree murder. Nice try on attempting to injure yourself, d*ck

Hope this girl gets justice by a full conviction

Posted by sickofit1 (anonymous) on April 16, 2009 at 12:22 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Anyone know what happened to the little dog they used to have. I'm a neighbor and they had a little white dog I think.

Posted by TheUnwanted (anonymous) on April 16, 2009 at 12:31 p.m. (Suggest removal)

The dog was being held by animal control and a shelter I believe. My boyfriend and I called to inquire what was going to happen to him and they said that he was being held for now and not released. This was yesterday evening. We are also a neighbor of theirs and it is just terrible that it happened to someone so nice.

Posted by white2mm (anonymous) on April 16, 2009 at 12:37 p.m. (Suggest removal)

which unit # were they in?

Posted by vt03skins (anonymous) on April 16, 2009 at 12:39 p.m. (Suggest removal)

pammegel, please accept my apology and my sympathy.

It was sincerely NOT my intent to banter about something so serious and so sad.

Posted by BarbaraMunsey (anonymous) on April 16, 2009 at 12:45 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Thanks white2mm. This is just terrible. She seemed so nice. I didn't know her personally. I walk my dog by there everyday and I remembered when they got the puppy. I hope it will be okay.

Posted by TheUnwanted (anonymous) on April 16, 2009 at 12:52 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of this young woman. I hope the suspect will be prosecuted to the full extent of the law.

Posted by momof2 (anonymous) on April 16, 2009 at 12:53 p.m. (Suggest removal)

UnWanted: That's how we met them as well was through walking our dogs. they always would play together when they were out. Hopefully he will be ok and go to a good home.
vt03skins: 21014

Posted by white2mm (anonymous) on April 16, 2009 at 1:18 p.m. (Suggest removal)

The most tragic of all this is that she had a young son. And now he will grow up not knowing his mother because of this disgusting violence.

Posted by ckaystevens (anonymous) on April 16, 2009 at 2:17 p.m. (Suggest removal)

She actually has two other older sons as well that she wasn't able to visit often. I'm so glad that you all had such pleasant memories of our friend just from your short period of time knowing her and thanks for your concern about the dog. She didn't have a mean bone in her body. God bless you all. Those of us who knew her intend to make sure justice is done.

Posted by pammegel (anonymous) on April 16, 2009 at 2:37 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Just FYI - It was not the little white dog. They had a bigger dog. The people with the little white dog are just fine.

Posted by kflynn (anonymous) on April 16, 2009 at 2:38 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I guess you didn't know here all that well, she wasn't that nice, but she didn't deserve this, she hadn't seen her 2 kids in 5 years, and lost custdy of her youngest son. She was a troubled woman, and I hope this man pays.

Posted by ckaystevens (anonymous) on April 16, 2009 at 2:55 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I find it perhaps a little sad that I live in the next building over and never knew them. I don't actually know any of my neighbors except saying the occasional hello to the 90-ish year old lady who lives next door to me. I grew up in the country and knew nearly all of my neighbors as a child, but I've never really known any neighbors since I moved to northern Virginia. What a tragedy that this could occur at all, and that our community network of support is so thin these days.

Posted by kauket (anonymous) on April 16, 2009 at 3:09 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Thanks kflynn.

Posted by TheUnwanted (anonymous) on April 16, 2009 at 3:37 p.m. (Suggest removal)

kauket,

I know what you mean. NoVA is definitely not a very friendly place. Too many transients, too many people.

Posted by TooManyPeople (anonymous) on April 16, 2009 at 4:17 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I'll miss knowing you are out there 'somewhere' in the world - we did not ALWAYS have the best of times, but we had quite a few 'best of times'. Life is troubled and precarious for some - you can sit back and judge, or have a little EMPATHY for someone who finds life a struggle. She did not deserve this - it makes me physically ill how easy the people she loved most took advantage of her because she was TOO nice and accommodating - but I would certainly hope that any others who 'barely knew her' would have enough tact not to pronounce their judgement on her now in this forum - how inappropriate and catty. Shame on you. Sorry to burst your bubble - but it's not your place.

Posted by akersnick (anonymous) on April 16, 2009 at 4:29 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Apparently today, 4/16/09, as this Mr. Cavalieri sits in jail, the jail has a board where they have terms they refer to and this guy is "wack & hack" I presume because of the way this poor woman was murdered. Such a shame and I hope justice is served!!

Posted by lltsktrr (anonymous) on April 16, 2009 at 5:28 p.m. (Suggest removal)

How horrible.

Posted by momof2 (anonymous) on April 16, 2009 at 5:35 p.m. (Suggest removal)

thats horrible, whats his issue.

Posted by ur2little2late4me (anonymous) on April 16, 2009 at 9:17 p.m. (Suggest removal)

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Posted by draeviot (anonymous) on April 16, 2009 at 10:36 p.m.

Who are you people and what hole did you crawl out of? To pass judgment makes you as guilty as he. You know nothing but heresay and will spill it in a public forum. How disgusting. May you rot in hell with David for your slander.

Posted by pammegel (anonymous) on April 16, 2009 at 10:52 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I don't see how anything she could have done in life would give this guy any right to kill her. I also don't see how it is anyone's business at this point what her sex life or relationships were like before death. I never met her but she's a person and deserves respect because of that and please show some respect as she has friends on this forum. I mean, speculating at this point is just rude.

Posted by persimonix1 (anonymous) on April 16, 2009 at 11:42 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I sincerely hope the comment posted by 'lltsktrr' regarding "whack and hack" is not true. I also do not appreciate ANYONE saying ANYTHING bad about her!!! Who the hell are you?? What's wrong with you?? She has a family?! She is a human being?! She was a wonderful, fun, passionate person... full of life and her friends and loved ones miss her tremendously.

Posted by cdizestone (anonymous) on April 17, 2009 at 1:29 a.m. (Suggest removal)

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Posted by cdizestone (anonymous) on April 17, 2009 at 1:40 a.m.

Thank you cdizestone and pammegel. She was a wonderful, fun, passionate person who loved her sons dearly. I am her cousin and we, the family, are devestated. She was one of the kindest individuals you could ever know.

Posted by PSulli2073 (anonymous) on April 17, 2009 at 8:27 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Hello PSulli-we know. We were good friends of hers. I personally have known her for 18 years through all the good and bad and you had to love her. We mourn with your family.

Posted by pammegel (anonymous) on April 17, 2009 at 1:22 p.m. (Suggest removal)

My deepest condolences to the kids that are faced with this undeserved tragedy. Why was she with that loser psycho in the first place? If she lived with him, didn't she catch the drift that he may be a few sandwiches short of a picnic basket? Murder then stash the body for weeks?!? Insane.

Posted by uiothout (anonymous) on April 17, 2009 at 3:05 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Hey funnyguyva... have you ever lost a loved one? Shut up. You are a blog geek that has no life. All of her friends and family are still dealing with her death. This wasn't cancer or a car accident, it was MURDER. Who is prepared for that?! I'd paid 10x the taxes to have my loved ones living. As well as 10x the taxes to put to death the bad seeds that kill my loved ones.

Posted by cdizestone (anonymous) on October 21, 2009 at 12:37 a.m. (Suggest removal)

I think BarbaraMunsey put it perfectly. She was a friend, a daughter, a sister, a mother... a life gone. That gives me goosebumps and makes me sad. I hope he rots in hell. She was taken too soon. I saw her son at her funeral as well as the look in her mother's eyes... and I take that vision home every night. I will never suffer like they will. So very sad. I wish I could help them with their pain. All we can do is support causes for domestic violence.

Posted by cdizestone (anonymous) on October 21, 2009 at 12:58 a.m. (Suggest removal)